Roohi said 9 years, 11 months ago:

well i got married in January this year…..and my husbands in germany

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i moved to germany last month

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my problem is he dosent share anythng about his past with me

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which is fundamental for me for a successful relationship

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i have tried this before as well but it just dosnet work

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all i knew was that he was married once before and had got separated

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when i had asked for reasons etc , he has said mutual differenences and have not explaine firther

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i havent also nudged further because i am also not a very open person so thought he is similar

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recently i have come across chats and mail wherein i know he has been in multiple relationshios

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including one of his current colleague

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whom i also met

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and their mails have been so open, him sharing everybit of his life

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i feel so hurt

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he has never ever spoken to me so openly..is it my fault? i have no clue..i just feel utterly depressed

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also in the new country i am just so alone..it dosent help

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what should i do?