Jess said 8 years, 9 months ago:
I’m sorry you feel so lonely. I know it doesn’t mean much, but you’ll always have this website and the people on here.
You could try Tumblr to find more friends and possibly more if you wanted to. There is a huge LGBTQ+ and a substantial transgender- community on there.
Talking to people just takes practice. I know you probably don’t want to talk to people until you can, but you really have to bite the bullet and put yourself out there- even if it’s only on here to start with (pat yourself on the back for opening up here).
You don’t need to be taught how to be a girl. All of these stereotypes and expectations are constraints and NONE of us can live up to them all (there is no shame in wanting to live up to some of them though either). The best way to be a girl is to be yourself. You are a girl. You might just not feel 100% there yet. That’s okay. Transitioning isn’t just a physical process, it’s a mental one too.
I’m not transgender, but you can talk to me as a friend if you want to. Just send me a private message if you’re up to it.