Caprielle said 9 years, 8 months ago:

All my friends have ditched me and I really don’t know why.
I’ve tried approaching them yet they still ignore me. I’m always the one who first reaches out for them. They barely initiate a conversation w/me. I also barely get invited to hang out with them.
When I saw their photos on FB and Insta w/out me, I feel so sad. I feel jealous because they always post and comment each other posts’ and FB profiles and they never did that to me. Some of my friends in the past also made fun of me and whenever I wasn’t with them, they would talk about me.

I keep trying to be nice and a good friend to them but I gradually feel tired now. People around me don’t like me too. Idk why either. Maybe I’m just too tall , skinny and ugly. Or maybe I don’t have any talents or special skills.They just greet at me then pass by me. I can conclude that I’m not meant to have friends. How can I stop feeling awful about this serious matter?

Tea said 9 years, 8 months ago:

I, for one, can relate. I remember my freshman year in high school (I’m going to be a senior now). I use to hangout with girls that use to treat me like your friends treat you now. At first I thought it was me “Am I weird?” or “Is it because I don’t sleep around with everyone?” these questions use to pass through my mind all the time, especially since they never included me in anything, left me out of the conversations, or never filled me in. But soon I figured out that those girls weren’t my friends. And the reason I stood out so much from them was because I didn’t act the way they did (two-faced, liars, bullies), and those are the type of people I DIDN’T want in my life, so I made a new set of friends, (easier than you think. Just be yourself) and I’m so happy I did. We share everything from inside jokes, to calling each others family members family. So, first off, think about WHY you’re different. Are you being yourself, and they don’t like the fact that you’re the real you? or are you trying so hard to be like them, and you aren’t happy?

Deleted User said 9 years, 8 months ago:

So why do you need your friends exactly?

It aint a serious matter. Make new ones.

Learn not to be bored when you are alone, not like play computer games, or some waste of life, but something productive. As you grow up, everyone starts having a life( mainly work, lil personal)!

wingedcookie said 9 years, 7 months ago:

you can talk to me if you want, i am here to help, and making friends is aways good if you aren’t feeling comfortable with your friends, then they just aren’t your friends…try to meet new people, to be kind with everyone, and do not blame yourself because of that problems. you are what you are, if the people around you don’t acept you, be sure someone will, i know because i would.

Samantha said 9 years, 7 months ago:

If you think so and if they don’t really seem like they are you’re friends, then I would work on trying to move on and make new friends, friends that care.

If you are feeling depressed, I would definitely encourage you to either go see your doctor or physician, talk to a psychologist/ counselor, or call the national suicide hotline (like another member recommended).

Don’t let people make you feel like you’re not worth it or make you feel ugly, etc…. You are definitely worth it and pretty! And I am pretty sure someone out there would miss you if you just “disappeared” out of the blue.

You’re welcome to send me a message if you need to talk to someone or add me if you want a friend!

Deleted User said 9 years, 7 months ago:

I wish you would step back from that ledge my friend, you could cut ties with all the lies that you’ve been living in.