Deanosauras said 9 years, 2 months ago:
Hi,
I am trying to help a friend who has been sexually assaulted in early teens and then again there was an unsuccessful attempt on her in late teens.
She hasn’t told anyone including her parents but me because she fears people will think she is impure and she was at fault for her sexual assault.
I understand why she fears that because has a religious family and her past sexual assaults means she doesn’t trust anyone.
I have assured her it wasn’t her fault. She is an amazing person. I really want to help her and I have told her that she can take her time and I am trying to be the person she can trust in her life.
I am afraid that I don’t have all the knowledge that a therapist would have in helping a sexual assault survivor. She told me that she may never be able to get the courage to talk to a therapist.
She is in a different continent. So long distance helping is difficult. We text each other and I am being extremely patient with her and assuring that she can take as much time as she needs.
She will have to get help from a therapist at some point. She doesn’t want to tell family and she hasn’t been able to socialise much since her teens so she doesn’t have many friends to help her locally.
What should I do? Any good advice on this situation?
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