Okay so let me start off by saying that I myself am a 19 year old straight male. I come on this site mostly to listen but I sometimes vent, too. I am honestly very disappointed by the amount of guys on this site who only come here to talk to girls. As a listener, I have been turned down multiple times by venters once they found out I was a male. I also tend to notice just in general in conversations, many times people will start to be shorter with me or not want to talk to me as much once they figure out I’m a dude.
I somewhat understand that kind of stuff coming from the venter side, but what really grinds my gears is when I’m a venter and people disconnect when they find out I’m male. This has happened to me a few times, but the whole reason I’m even ranting about this and made this account is because just now I started talking to someone on here and they were like “how may I help you sir?” (I hadn’t specified my gender), so I told them my problem and then there were like “sorry for assuming you were a sir” and then I was like “it’s okay I am lol” and then they left instantly. The worst part about it is that I knew what they were doing when they were like “how may I help you sir?” I had a feeling from that moment that they were just trying to figure out if I was a guy or girl. He wanted me to probably say “excuse me but I’m a girl… let’s go have skype sex now”.
Now look, I’m a straight dude… and I’m freaking lonely too. I’ve only ever had one girlfriend my whole life and right now I’m single and a virgin…. and I don’t disconnect from someone just because they’re a dude. So dudes of blahtherapy, I know there are many of you out there who are really nice, good dudes and who come here for the right reasons.. but for those of you who just come here to try to hook up on skype or something or just for female attention… this isn’t the place. people actually come here who want to talk about something other than your penis. And ESPECIALLY if you’re going to be a listener… don’t be looking for that kind of stuff on here. Go rub one out before you talk to people on here or something. I’m not saying female attention isn’t nice, I get that… and trust me I know it sucks feeling lonely and stuff… but come on this site is not for that. Sorry that was my big rant. I hope you all have an amazing, wonderful day filled with rainbows and sunshine. (: