 Familiar Face
7163 QA Reputation2717 | Jess said 10 years, 4 months ago: Every time I listen I get one or two Venters asking “guy or girl” and they disconnect whenever I say ‘girl’. I get that same person/people several times while switching Venters. So, boys, come out from wherever you’re hiding and give listening a go! | |
 Common Friend
23049 QA Reputation7397 | rinseandrep said 10 years, 4 months ago: I got the same result saying guy. *shrugs* | |
 Passing Stranger
987 QA Reputation194 | Michael said 10 years, 4 months ago: It’d never happened to me. I’ve never vented, always listened. | |
 Passing Stranger
270 QA Reputation10 | Jeff3845 said 10 years, 4 months ago: what’s on your mind? | |
 Familiar Face
1915 QA Reputation9 | Kitty said 10 years, 4 months ago: I don’t think I’ve ever had that happen, but I also follow up saying that I’m a girl by saying that I have surprising insight into male problems and that I can be trusted. It usually goes over well. | |
 Familiar Face
2943 QA Reputation22 | blackdog said 10 years, 4 months ago: I get that as a male listener too. Some people just have definite ideas as to who they are comfortable talking too. | |
 Passing Stranger
559 QA Reputation0 | MrWussWuss said 10 years, 3 months ago: Dunno. Sometimes when I say that I’m a guy people don’t feel like they can talk to me anymore. Strange, but I guess people ahve different opinions on people they can talk to and who can relate. | |
 Newbie
0 QA Reputation0 | Deleted User said 10 years, 3 months ago: I’m a female-to-male transgender, so I’ve dealed with girls’ and boys’ problems – including relationship-wise, since I’m pan-demisexual. So well.
Not that much of a problem, I guess. I’ve dealed with so much. | |
 Passing Stranger
303 QA Reputation5 | Mike said 10 years, 3 months ago: I listen to both. | |
 Newbie
0 QA Reputation0 | Deleted User said 10 years, 3 months ago: Oddly, I assume the listener is male until told otherwise. The reason I don’t do “Listener” is because I’m completely unable to help any one. I just simply don’t possess the knowledge.
Edit: I’ve been a listener these past two nights. I’ve noticed that no one likes male listeners. Can’t figure that out. | |
 Passing Stranger
646 QA Reputation7 | TrustedWeakness said 10 years, 3 months ago: I’m a guy, and I get skipped the same way. It’s just a preference for the venter  | |
 Newbie
0 QA Reputation0 | Deleted User said 10 years, 2 months ago: I have tried the same!
Getting skipped by that person, is just awkward.
And well.. I guess it’s up to the venters, which listener they want. I do think it’s quite shallow to just disconnect someone because of a gender(depending on which problem you have). Repeating.. :”Where are you guys?!” (; | |
Newbie
0 QA Reputation0 | Deleted User said 10 years, 2 months ago: If you visit http://www.souladviser.com – I’m a male and I have lots of credentials. Check them out and check out the website!  Thank you! | |
 Newbie
0 QA Reputation0 | Deleted User said 10 years, 2 months ago: Funny….most times I be a listener the person goes “oh I was looking for a girls advice sorry disconnect” -_- | |
 Newbie
0 QA Reputation0 | Deleted User said 10 years, 2 months ago: Most of the time* guys want to talk to girls.(It’s like we feel less judged especially with personal stuff.) and vice-versa. | |
