I recently became a devoted Listener, and have, of course, done my best to give the best advice I know how to give. However, I have become seriously stumped in one regard. A few of my Venters has expressed a desire to become closer to women/men and eventually get a girlfriend/boyfriend. When I tried to show them their positive qualities, unfortunately, it seemed as though they were literally incapable of accepting the honest compliments of things that I have observed during the conversation. They became disturbingly self-deprecating and extremely negative. How do you folks think I should handle this in the future?