TheManWithThePants said 7 years, 3 months ago:

I’ve just found out that my girlfriend of almost a year has had sex behind my back with my friend many times. I want to die. Everything is numb. I cant see clearly. I am hollow.

Deleted User said 7 years, 3 months ago:

I’m so sorry to hear this happened to you and things like this can be really painful to deal with. Numbing the pain may help for a while although it may just make it worse when you finally do feel it. It may not feel like this, but this isn’t a reflection on you as a person – it does not mean you’re anything less than your friend, and it was wrong for your friend and girlfriend to do that to you. Take some time out for yourself, it’s okay to mourn the loss of this but try not to let it take over you. Talking to someone you’re close to about how you’re feeling or writing it down in a journal might help you find some kind of outlet for your feelings. If communicating with her about it would help you understand and move on that might be an idea, but cutting contact could be an idea as well, especially if she’s treated you badly like that. This pain is temporary and it’s hard when she meant a lot to you but death isn’t the way out of this. If you’re feeling suicidal you can try a suicide hotline ( or or You did not deserve this and I believe that you can make it past this, even though things are bound to be extremely hard right now.

mariko said 7 years ago:

I know this post is old but I’ll answer this anyways. Move on. It hurts like hell, I can’t imagine what you’re going through. But she made a decision, to trow everything you guys had just for sex. So move on, cause there are so many wonderfull young ladies out there who would love to have a happy relationship with a guy. So move on cause you definetly deserve better