Annelise said 8 years, 8 months ago:

So, I’m pretty much in three different friend groups. They all call me by a different name and I act differently with each of them, and I’m not sure which me is the real me anymore.

The first group is my friends in real life: They call me Rebecca. I am laughing, happy, and they know a lot about me, like my family, my looks, what I like and everything. I lie to them.

My second group is my friends on Skype: They call me Kat. I talk about some of the feelings I have, and I rarely lie. They know I play video games.

My third group is my friends on a website (other than this): They call me Annelise, and I don’t lie. They know about my insecurites, and a couple of the feelings I have. They know my writing.

None of my groups know about any of the others, and I act differently with all of them. I don’t know when I’m actually me around them. can anyone help?

caring words said 8 years, 8 months ago:

its good in one way,we all have multiple personalities,some of show all of them to one set of people,which often create problems,they like one trait of yours and hate other one,but in your case you know how to use which trait and when

deathly said 8 years, 8 months ago:

where do you feel more secure?
when you express your truly feelings
and you feel like that’s where you belong
that’s the real you.

Smile said 8 years, 7 months ago:

Well something that I’ve been told is that people have different roles, you don’t act the same way with your mom as you do with your boyfriend. Maybe you are the 3 of them, but if this doesn’t convince you, then think in which group you feel more comfortable and authentic.