(◣_◢)Poet said 9 years, 7 months ago:
i’ve found that i don’t want someone like me, but someone just different enough for the whole thing to be interesting; being able to learn new things from them as opposed to learning that there is another version of me…with boobs.
Of course you want to have things in common, but don’t shy away from those that may seem obviously different, because its with those people that your world can expand with.
I’m attracted to women of all origins, i’ve always been, but i’ve found that the world is a lot smaller than it lets on, at least from the human perspective. everyone wants the same thing and its boring…almost pathetic. dividing lines between ethnicity or race make the whole dating/relationship thing awfully boring; but on the flip side it makes it a lot easier to not care about human beings as much, since they are gullible and narrow minded on the average.
Anyway, toss out a line, see who bites, but don’t be too quick to reel anyone in, especially if its because they seem to be your ideal match or because it feels harmless. No romance in that.