so my bf of about 2 1/2 years broke up with me recently (about 2 months ago). he ignored me the week before and then when i said i wanted to talk in person, at first he said yes, but then said no. hes broken up with me before and always for the same reasons..he said i never made enough time for him and was also mad that he hadnt met my parents/family. we were both in school full time(college, and i have graduated), i was both looking for work and doing my internship, and raising my daughter. hes older than i am, is a father, but has them sporadically. id be the one to plan date nights (not all the time, but when i could) and would even pay if he couldnt. i would buy concert tickets, plan movie nights, and make any time i could while being in school and juggling school stuff and family stuff. i feel i did my best,but he would complain if i wasnt there everyday. for example, we could see eachother one day, and if i didnt go over two days later, he said,’ why havent i seen you in two days?”(that actually happened).
also, as far as meeting my parents, i would invite him to gatherings at my grandparents house (which is how i wanted him to meet them..and i explained that to him constantly), he would always have ‘reasons’ not to go. he’d use his kids not being with him as a reason too. he didnt even go to my graduation this past june for various ‘reasons’ ( not wanting to be around a lot of people, not wanting to meet my family all at the same time, not wanting to sit alone in the back..all his actual reasons). i even let that slide and he still attempted to blame me for him not being there.
he told me that he will always love me and we both saw a future with eachother. he told me he didnt want me to contact him anymore, and since he broke up with me over text, i feel as though i still have things to say. it hurts and i wish he didnt just walk away.