Em said 9 years, 2 months ago:

It’s all up to you whether or not you want to kiss him now or wait until you fall in love. A kiss might be a big deal to you, and that’s not a problem. As long as he knows if you want to wait until you’re in love, you should be fine. And if you truly want to wait until you’re in love to kiss him, he should accept that. Also, somehow, if you feel that he is not the one, the relationship probably won’t work out.

However, if you don’t see a kiss as something that should wait for love, wait until you are comfortable. If you’re not comfortable, it won’t be exciting and enjoyable.

As for me, my first kiss was unexpected. I had been dating the guy for almost a month when we first kissed (and we’re still dating). We were sitting in the park on our third date. I was saying something, and I turned to look at him, and out of no where he planted one on me. It was awkward, sure, since it was my first kiss (he had no idea it was my first kiss). Needless to say, I was quite flustered and embarrassed, which only made me more embarrassed.

So, if you want to kiss him, then kiss him, but wait until you are comfortable. If you want to wait to fall in love with him, make sure he knows that. Don’t let him pressure you into anything either. You are not obligated to kiss anyone.

Whatever you choose, enjoy yourself

The Giggle Blizzard said 9 years, 2 months ago:

The first time it happened to me, I was at a party and this girl in my class sat down on my lap – we were both very drunk – and started making out with me after a while. Later on she kinda fell asleep and puked over my pants. I wasn’t mad about it or anything but yeah that’s my experience. The kiss was nothing special and I didn’t feel anything for her so it was kinda pointless.

Red Sheep said 9 years, 2 months ago:

I think that a kiss just comes without even asking. There’s no right moment, when it comes, it comes.
Do you think that if he didn’t ask you to kiss you, but instead he would just kiss you without telling you anything, would you reject him or would you just accept that kiss?

As for me, I never wanted to kiss just a random guy, but someone I liked (so yeah, it happened that moment where the guy wanted to kiss me but I pushed him away, now that I think about it, I feel a little sorry for him XD). So when I went out with this guy, and we liked each other but we never did anything, we were in the park, at night.. We were searching a place to stay, and seeing this little park with just a street lamp, we sat in that dark corner of the park on a bench, and without even realizing it, he kissed me right away.

Even now that we’re not together anymore, I can’t forget that night of passion. :3

alif said 9 years, 1 month ago:

A kiss is only as meaningful as the reason that lies behind it. The act in itself doesn’t really matter. It applies for any move in a relationship actually; holding hands, sexual interaction, all of it.

So I suggest the first thing you need to do is define the meaning you want to convey with that kiss; is it something sacred? Is it just a playful kiss? Is it lust? Any meaning is fine, and no one can, or should, define that for you.

But I guess what’s most important is that the person you kiss understand what it means to you. They need to fully acknowledge the meaning and respect it. So show that. And you could do this through a number of ways, getting to know the person and ensuring they understand you is one of the most common. When they understand you, they’d probably understand what a kiss means to you.

If not that, then just say it. And make them understand.

Regardless, make sure you enjoy it.

bbblife42 said 9 years, 1 month ago:

Honestly everyone makes a big deal about first kisses, but I feel like it is overdramatized, yes it is special, but it isn’t going to absolutley blow you away. I do not regret having my first kiss even though she broke up with me very soon after. It is sorta nice to get out of the way and if you feel like it is right in that moment and with that guy then do it, if not then wait, you will know when you are ready.

Atomiczombie757 said 9 years, 1 month ago:

im a 14 year old guy who still has not kissed another boy (and never a girl either, but i dont like girls). quite hard for me because i cannot find another boy to date.