Tsukimono said 8 years, 8 months ago:
I don’t really belong here but I’ve got experience related to this topic and what reality is.
I don’t want to sound negative but is how reality is.
It’s fine to have a long distance relationship and all, but you know, you can’t make babies through chat nor get legally married through chat neither. You should remember, that no matter how much you love each other, if the other person lives too far away, and you don’t have a method to visit him or vice-versa (he visit you) then it will be impossible. I mean, you wont be able to kiss, hug, share moments while being next to each other, and there will be more interference (if there’s no internet, if the computer or the cellphone gets broken or something like this), also, when one of you get angry, any of you can just go off and there’s no way to solve the problem that caused the anger, you can’t go to the other person house and force your way in, which is even more depressing.
If you live continents away, then try working hard and saving up (if you’re not in a age to start working, then you should just stay being friends or not talking too much about the future, why? Because you will grow desperate and if you get in a argument the distance topic will most likely pop up, and it may end in a bad way) and try to meet someday, after you meet your relationship will improve drastically.
Don’t believe that you will find the “perfect love” through internet, since you don’t know how the other person really is, also even being next to each other, you never get to know all the faces a person can have. (What I mean with this is, not to search a supposedly perfect love but find someone you can be compatible with for life, not for a moment)
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