Firefang54 said 9 years, 1 month ago:

So I found out today that my best friend really likes her boyfriend’s best friend and that he likes her to. But I realized then that I really like her boyfriend. Alot. So, thankfully, she wasn’t mad when I told her. But now I don’t know what to do because she thinks that her boyfriend really likes me too. Please help!

Swifting said 9 years, 1 month ago:

Step back from the situation and let them work out their issues first. Don’t worry about it. If it is meant to be it will be. Focus on what is important like school and learning. Having a good time.

Firefang54 said 9 years, 1 month ago:

Thanks Swifting, I will definently try it, although my best friend just broke up with the guy I really like, so I’m not sure what do now!

Jess said 9 years, 1 month ago:

I agree with Swifting. Talk to your friend and explain that you don’t want to ruin your friendship over a guy and that you will take a step back from it all. Ask her if she would mind you seeing the guy. She seems like a good friend and although it may be awkward to ask it’s better than going behind her back about it. Just be open to her about the whole situation.

Firefang54 said 9 years ago:

Thank you so much for your input and advice Jess. I do have an update though. He asked me out at the beggining of this week and I asked my friend if it was ok with her and she said it was. So, we’ve been dating for about a week now. But you were right, I did have to step back for a bit to let them deal with it. Thanks again!