Hey ladies, before you come charging at me with torches and axes, I COME IN PEACE!
I am here with a question, to get to it let me explain what it is about. There has been a recent buzz for the release of the Fifty Shades movie. I’ve actually attempted to read the book a long time ago, and I couldn’t bring myself to get through the horrible writing, so I didn’t. I’ve been told by friends what it was about, and it has been described as horrible.
I never did mind much for people liking it, until a while back I was on facebook and saw memes of women glorifying Christian Grey, saying things like, he doesn’t ignore them for his X Box, he goes shopping with them etc. I got very angry on seeing this, because I am sure nobody wants a relationship like that. A relationship with someone who is that possessive and dominating. Yes, I understand we want partners who would dedicate time to us, but in the context of the topic, it seems as if they are glorifying someone like him.
My question thus is, what are your views on the matter? Do you really want someone like him in your life? I get it’s erotica, like as guys, at least speaking for myself, I have things I am into, but that being said, it stays in the imagination and I don’t think I will ever do those things or have those things done to me lol, so I get if you are into it in that way, but is it really something you see yourself engaging in, putting up with?
Which brings me to another part of my question, do guys like say myself have any chance in terms of getting a girl interested? I am a bit shy. I can be brave and throw myself out on a ledge for a girl, but it sort of takes some time. I guess what brings this question up is a discussion I had with some guys, who believe nice guys always finish last. As they said, “Funny, girls don’t like jerks, but they are in love with Fifty Shades and want that in a guy.”
So I guess, that’s all I really want to know. Do nice guys always finish last? With the rise of this movie, is it likely the younger generation of females could be shaped by this and ultimately future good, shy, quiet guys might finish last always?
I know this doesn’t apply to all ladies too. For instance, my sister and some friends I know are totally against it, but yeah just wanted to get your views on the matter.