The right path said 9 years, 11 months ago:

You should break up with him… why? because if you told him to stop and he keeps doing it , he’s not going to stop… and remember if he did that to his ex , he could do that to you too, and by reading this I can see that you don’t trust him and without trust the relationship its just like a computer without internet , you can only play games… Or tell him to stop adding girls and talking to them , if he doesn’t stop them break up with him ! you’re his girlfriend and he should appreciate you more and care more about you than his facebook … its better to move on than to keep with this relationship that isn’t working … isn’t facebook who is ruining your relationship , it’s your boyfriend because he’s the one who is adding the girls , think about it and good luck !

suomynona said 9 years, 10 months ago:

your situation sounds like one i had with my boyfriend when we started dating and lasted a few years until i learned a lesson…

my boyfriend has almost all female friends on his Facebook and he hangs out with only females. he took the “girls are easier to hang out with then guys” approach when explaining himself to me. i, for years, was insanely jealous that he was doing stuff behind my back and hanging out with them and being inappropriate. I’ve seen his messages and he (according to him) never noticed they flirt with him.

before we moved in together we had a situation where one of these girls was actually thinking she was starting a relationship with him and he didn’t know it. we fought for days about that one and we both made each other realize how hard we have been fighting for years to prove to each other that we love each other. he has never done anything that i know and when i look back i was insane for nothing because he always was trying to compromise and do anything he could (including stopping talking to some girls) just to prove he is fully invested. it took me actually cheating on him to realize how stupid i was and how hard i want to make it work with him.

i think you need to compromise and try and get a better understanding of the nature of his relationships with these girls. it is possible for men to be friends with woman and not doing anything with them.

KellyMichelle:) said 9 years, 10 months ago:

Its all on how you feel. If he makes you feel insecure because of how he’s acting then you should just let him go. If you feel that he is trying and he is willing to let go of Facebook then you shouldn’t let him go. I know its hard to choose and when your in the relationship your almost blindsided BUT I have been where you have been and it didn’t work and I realized how much happier I am now because I don’t feel like I am competing for anyones attention anymore. Also my ex who was doing pretty much what your bf is doing is completely proving me right!… hes really sketchy and not a ‘loyal’ bf even though he pretends he is. So I definitely wouldn’t let your concerns go but do talk to him about it and see where he stands.

Deleted User said 9 years, 10 months ago:

You are experiencing the danger of Internet… Break up with him before it’s too late.

Deleted User said 9 years, 10 months ago:

Facebook the murderer of relationships. I think its the number one things to keep away from when seriously committed. You should have a serious talk with him about this and how this makes you feel. If he doesn’t stop then he doesn’t respect you. Because you wont keep doing something that hurts someone you love. Demand respect by laying it all on the table. Respect yourself if he doesn’t consider your feelings and stop the foolishness.