Swifting said 9 years, 10 months ago:

It’s going to work out in the end. Don’t get me wrong some of the getting to the end sucks.

It’s going to hurt. All of it is going to hurt. In the end – nothing hurts. You’re free.

The right one will be gentle, he’ll be kind, he has his quirks but you get over them. You’re safe with him. There are going to be some losers along the way. But, you need them to appreciate just how good you’ve got it when the right guy comes along.

You do okay. I promise.

Jacq

mongoose said 9 years, 10 months ago:

I love it and *hugs* to you and the 14 year old you.

Snooze said 9 years, 10 months ago:

Dear 14 year old me,

I wish that when you grow up, you will treat love a little more carefully than what I did last time. Don’t fall into love too quickly and blindly, and be sure that if you do, you can and will get out of it soon. Don’t despair because time will heal you, and make you stronger as a person.

Anybody said 9 years, 10 months ago:

Dear 14-year-old me,

You don’t have to be afraid of people. I know you think they’re all judging you, all the time, but I can promise you that isn’t the case. Middle school was rough, but real people don’t tear other people down based on arbitrary standards.
So, get out and talk to people! You’re more capable than you think, but nobody can see it unless you speak up.

P.S. While wearing nothing but navy blue t-shirts makes you feel invisible, it’s ok to branch out a bit. You should wear something that makes you feel pretty for once.