be careful with open relationships. they leave room for a lot of hurt feelings if you don’t set VERY clear boundaries. and if both partners aren’t 100% comfortable with the concept, then it is not for you. I would suggest that you do not try an open relationship in a high school setting – remember, vicious gossip! also, it is difficult to explain to less mature people. emotions ride high in high school. maybe wait until you’re older to try the concept.