boyproblems said 10 years, 6 months ago:

We’ve been broken up for a little while now. Only a few weeks after we were done she ended up getting a new boyfriend, but we were acting as friends for a month and a half after. Then out of nowhere basically she said we needed to stop talking. Telling me a few days later that she does still want to be friends but thinks we cannot be friends until I am over everything. I have had days recently where I have been super happy and everything, but then days like today where I miss her so much. I don’t want to be back with her, I just miss her so much. How do I stop?

Ashley Webb said 10 years, 6 months ago:

The best way to get over an ex is to distract yourself. My favourite way to do that is to get a few close friends, rent a houseboat for a weekend, bring some alcohol/ swimmers/ fishing rods/ anything else and camp out on a lake. Play loud music, have fun, and don’t let her in your head. Other ways I’ve done it is to get out of the house – volunteering at homeless shelters or animal rescue shelters make you feel better about yourself. It’s not just her you need to “forget”, but to also mend yourself.

boyproblems said 10 years, 6 months ago:

Thanks for all the advice everyone I’ve tried a lot of this, and tried to be in the mindset that I lost but its her loss. But still feelings and sadness win in the end. Yes it does suck not talking , and I think that’s mostly the reason that I am feeling as bad as I am at this point. I was feeling better when we were even still just talking as friends. I have good days and bad days, but they seem to be all just mushed together around missing her. She was such a big part of my life and now she just not even in my life.