Mark Bailey said 9 years, 3 months ago:
Hey! I’m Mark, 24 years old and I am kind of stuck within my own mind lately unable to communicate with those who are close to me and whom I love. Yes I do have a loving family and a fantastic bunch of friends but something inside of me is screaming at me not to speak of my feelings/emotions. It feels like something is holding me back so I can appear problem free in front of family and friends and truth is I am far from that.
So let me start this off,
Earlier in the year I met a wonderful girl via work experience in my town, we instantly connected on the first day which was amazing. I’ll admit I wasn’t looking forward to trying out this work experience stuff because I don’t have much confidence, I was actually thinking of backing out after like the third day.
To cut it short we always waited for each other in the mornings, got drinks and chilled out after when ever we could. We have some deep conversations and there was a rough patch I had in November, she was there for me. Obviously over time I have gradually developed some serious feelings for her and I know she has the same for me because of certain things she has said and done. She stays over my place for a couple of days to sleep, watch movies, smoke and just generally enjoy each others company. When I’m around her I feel… comfortable, she has this aura about her that just feels so pure it’s actually very awkward to explain.
Now… here is the touchy part, she has a boyfriend and I know she isn’t happy, however she still feels love for him and can’t let go easily. I feel right now it’s not my place to even mention anything to her about my feelings and the boyfriend business. Recently I have been waking up at night after 5 hours of sleep missing her when she isn’t around, I sometimes cry because I know I cannot open up to her about how I feel because I might destroy an amazing friendship we have. Makes me sound like a right nutter aye? Haha,I’m not all like “I need to google this sh*t, how do I steal a girls bf” or any of that nonsense. I’m just afraid she’ll get hurt because I’m not going to lie, I have done my home work and the guy isn’t stable. I cannot state what has happened but take my word for it, he is bad news. I worry for her and the worst part is… I have no idea what I can do?
I have never really been into the hole relationship thing so my knowledge of the subject is pretty much a solid 0. I’ve tried burying the thoughts but recently they keep surfacing and it’s like something needs to be said. Now after that wall of text I was wondering if anybody else has had a similar experience? I would very much like to talk about this as it is kind of effecting me now. It would be a pleasure to get to know you guys.
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