AbridgedSquirrel said 7 years, 11 months ago:

Where are you in life? What are your interests? What experiences have made you- you?

AbridgedSquirrel said 7 years, 11 months ago:

Don’t everyone reply at once. Whoa. One at a time. Really, slow it down….I’m going into college and I love crafting, biology, fishing, experimenting, hiking, and making a difference. As for experiences, I’ve had way too many to count, but mutually taking a break with the love of my life and then getting friend zoned by her tugged at the heart strings a bit.

Deleted User said 7 years, 11 months ago:

i remember all my experiences sadly even the ones where im half blacked out, ive been through what you described with my only serious girl, it led me to depression and eventually WAKING up, as i call it, i started seeing the world and my actions in a new perspective and lifes been 100% better. If that break up didnt happen, id still be a piece of shit lol

matthoughton said 7 years, 11 months ago:

My bad experiences? Well, when i started high school i got bullied for sticking up for someone who got bullied; he ended up joining in. When i was 14 i broke up with my girlfriend who then lied about pregnant with my kid, Told loads of people i raped her and i apparently jumped out of a car and put her in hospital, A week after that one of my friends(used to be my best mate, we drifted) died. About a year later my brother broke up with his girlfriend and moved back home, He suffers from depression and drinks alot. He slashed his wrists in front of me, and put me under alot of stress.. and then about another year later I met a new girl; Full on psycopath. She stabbed me, hit me with hammers, accused me of cheating on her; I didn’t. Recently found out she was cheatin’ on me anyhow. Pretty much dropped all my mates out for her haha. I’m 16 lmao.

Theres my experiences. Lesson learnt? Fuck hoes make money;-)

Deleted User said 7 years, 11 months ago:

haha so sick man!! you were like me man, thinking with our dicks..we need to stop falling for psychos, doesnt help more than half the women in the world are corrupted or full blown psychos, the pure ones are hard to find. i recently learned if i thought more about the girls im being serious/casual with right from the get go, i would avoid pain later on with them in life, never let the women control the relationship, never more than 30% control methinks, im 21 now and i when i was 16 i was a crazy kid,so i feel ye man, better it happened sooner than later. coz lets face it later on you marry a psycho shes got rights on all of yer shit,females ego is terrible at times

matthoughton said 7 years, 11 months ago:

@limitless That’s true man! I don’t tend to realize they’re psychos until after i get with them though. Haha!

Deleted User said 7 years, 11 months ago:

true no normal 16 year old guy can..but ill give you some sound advice, i used to get psychos coz honestly my behaviour at the time was pretty psychotic in the sense i was a loser or was very negative, my behaviour or my attitude was adictive in the sense i influenced people negatively, i really believe the girls we date are a good reflection of our own physical and mental health, i think no normal girl will fall for a psycho guy as they will be AWARE of their behaviour and others, thats why its so hard to find a normal chick. My best advice i can give, what you want in a chick make sure you have those qualities in yourself at a good level = mainly mental and physical health, and youll find a normal girl in no time. Deal with your pain, issues in a positive way , set goals and you will find a girl who has done the same. i firmly believe in this”" behind every successful man, there is a strong and amazing woman, and behind every loser theres a bitch”"

matthoughton said 7 years, 11 months ago:

@limitless haha. message me pal

AbridgedSquirrel said 7 years, 11 months ago:

All great men had great women behind them. FDR had his mother giving him advice. George Washington and Abraham Lincoln had their wives. (I know American History pretty exclusively, my apologies). Point being- all great men have a great woman helping them. I’m just reinforcing limitless’ point.

LucianMp said 7 years, 11 months ago:

And a little about my self.
Born in 1996 my mom says in 17 but idk pretty much everyone else agrees I’m 16.
Currently in High school.

*Question about jobs moved to Careers and prep thread*

Unknown said 7 years, 10 months ago:


Pretty much.

Further, I was born in 1992, making me the age of 21. I’m cool with people as long as they are cool with me. And yes, I’m in College while looking for a new job, next to it. (My former employer can lick my butt). Ha.

Deleted User said 7 years, 9 months ago:

haha i actually read that essay, its good you got that shit acknowledged, time to leave that life behind and use whats happened to you to your advantage in life, start thinking outside the box, im sure you get what i mean, or end up like the rest.

georgey said 7 years, 8 months ago:

I was born in 1997. I’m 16 and in college in the UK. Over the past four years everything’s been going downhill. I found out the anxiety is a huge burden on my life. I’ve felt unattractive for a long time and I feel lonely when I’m single for extended periods of time. I’m here because this time, the loneliness is clawing away at me more and more every day and I don’t know what to do about it. I’ve had a lot of dumb shit happen with exes and people they were associated with and I’m just getting sick of things constantly going wrong in my life.

At 12, I met a girl called Alicia and we had your average 12 year old relationship, you know, not really understanding all that much but still enjoyed it for whatever it was. A girl named Zoe disliked us pretty heavily after I argued with her on a 24/7 basis for a few weeks. I didn’t know who Zoe was fully and I only knew her through an old friend of mine.

Because of Zoe bringing her friends on us, a bad thing happened and Alicia and I just kinda lost it for a while. I didn’t know it was Zoe’s fault though. I ended up getting with Zoe and I got her pregnant twice, both ending in abortion when I was just 13. I found her sucking somebody’s dick. I actually made friends with the guy right there on the spot because he didn’t know either, but regardless, Zoe flipped out and tried to throw a chair at me and I just got out of there and headed home. After I was through with her bullshit she continued to harass me and I wound up with a girl named Tara who was straight up fucking abusive, like this girl thought it was right to hit people and shit like that, I don’t really speak about her much. Then there was another girl who nothing of much importance happened with, Kaya who I also got pregnant except this time ending with miscarriage and then she ended up screwing two dudes in London before breaking up with me and I got back with Alicia briefly.

Now it’s 2013 and I’m only 16 and yeah, that’s all a bunch of stupid stuff but I’m tired of it. I just want a calm, stable thing with a girl and I want to stop being anxious and to be able to enjoy the smaller things in life again. That’s all I want.

Linc said 7 years, 8 months ago:

I was born in 1996, In Chicago Illinois. I lived in an apartment with my family until my junior year of high school. I had only two main friends in my life, my friends Luke and Nicole. Luke lived in the apartment building I did and Nicole lived about three blocks down the street from us. We all would walk to and from school and every weekend take the l-train to a new place downtown. My family moved down to Florida my junior year and now I’m left friendless in a city and place I hate. My friends and I practically knew each other like the back of our hands and I have been really down because I don’t get to see them but I try to call them almost everyday. I guess this has allowed me to see what it is like to have no friends and be forced into a new place you have no idea about. My mother is a Social Worker for Victims of Domestic Violence and I sometimes go to the shelter and help her. Seeing these women and their children has made me a real anti-violent person, there is never a reason for violence. I plan to follow in my Mother’s footsteps and be a Social Worker. Being allow and away from all I have ever known has really transformed who I am in the year I have been in Florida. I help my friends with almost every promise they have and I love helping others with their problems. Even if I don’t have a personal connection to your issue I still will try my best to help.
Sorry this is so long.

Enol Flow said 7 years, 7 months ago:

Man life can be a bitch but us guys just have to put our chest out and deal with the things thrown at us and learn to never give up