FrenchFry said 6 years, 4 months ago:

This isn’t about someone being happier without me, this is about someone being happier with me, but I don’t know if I feel the same way.

I’m dating a guy who I really like, but he said the L word way too soon. I said it back because I thought I felt it, but I think it really just scared me away and I don’t know if I feel the same way about him anymore. He isn’t in a very good place right now and I know that I help him a lot, so I don’t want to leave him alone, but at the same time, I don’t want this to go on for even longer while I just dig a deeper whole for myself. I don’t know what to do because it would kill me to hurt him.

Deleted User said 6 years, 4 months ago:

Gotta let him know how you’re feeling, it usually ends up worse in the long run to hide things.