I live abroad at the moment in an Asian country. I met this guy about 4 months ago. We see each other at least once a week at church, and hang out in a group for dinner and a movie usually. He’s a native, so he’s been helping with translation and keeping me from getting lost, though he’s done the translating for others. I get this feeling that he seems to get physically closer to me than necessary. I’ve never really seen him get that close to the other girl we regular spend time with, though he doesn’t do it very often.
I’ve also been talking to him here and there through text, though you can’t really know someone through that. I know I’ve gotten my heart broken by a guy I mostly talked to through IM, so I’m trying not to repeat the past here.
I also don’t want to scare him off. He’s younger than me by 4 years. I don’t want to seem like that clingy, older girl. Especially if his interest is all in my head.