whyyy are people like this????

Ok soooo i have a really hard time understanding people sometimes ….last year for my birthday i got a tattoo….a plan circle on my wrist …it was my first tattoo and i had got the tattoo because my boyfriends first tattoo was a circle on his wrist and i wanted it to be my first tattoo as well I LOVE MY TATTOO it has a lot of meaning to me even if its just a circle anyway ive run into a few peolpe who have been very rude about it including a few family members. My sister even laughed about it saying “why would you get a circle?” And my cousin said “thats not even a tattoo ” …..why make me feel bad about something i like? ….its not even just the tattoo thing last year i dyed my hair blonde and my family members made me feel SO bad about it even though i loved it…i ended up dying it back dark brown within a month……i know i am a tad bit sensitive sometimes but i just dont understand why people have to be SO judgemental and rude ……if someone asked me if i liked their haircut and it wasnt something i would ever get I COULD STILL BE NICE ABOUT IT ….i hate mud puddles but i love the rain ….BOOM not hard …..×_× i just dont get people

asked April 19, 2015

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Brooke

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If you like it you like it , it's not them who have to wear it , its not them who did it or have to live with it if they don't like it who cares, your a whole different person. And you have the right to have your own opinion.

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ItsADream

Some people just don't understand other's reasoning and even if it is your family. You have to learn how to ignore them, its your choice not theirs. you will cross those people all through your life honestly. you just gotta stay strong!

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Dython

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I know exactly how you feel. I got a tattoo with the letter "k" when I was 18 because. It was the letter of my ex's name. And people always questioned it with disapproval. And when I dyed my hair blue, I overheard my mum calling me a "blue headed devil" on the phone to her friends. It sucks and it hurts like hell, but at the end of the day. Its what makes you happy and what makes you feel comfortable. I learned to accept me for who I am, and less about what others think. Stay strong and be confident , express yourself the way you feel fit.

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Enderles

It's human nature to break others down so you can be above them. Think "wild pack of dogs", there is a dominance order and when you break it by doing something they disagree with (regardless of whether or not you know they disagree) they will come at you, and make you feel sad and low. I'm not saying for you to break them down to be above them back, but try asserting yourself and letting them know, 'Hey, I don't really care what you think and I really don't want your opinion.'

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Waterfowl