Why is my sister being so rude to me and my mom?

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Im 23 i live with my sister, her husband, her three kids, and my mom. Everything was fine since me and my mom have moved here in 2013. My mom, sis, and her husband split their money to paid bills and rent. Recently, my sis have become very rude and mean to me and my mom by stop paying her half of rent and bills, buy unnecessary expensive things such as furniture and stuff. My mom and I have been struggling to buy food for us to eat. My sis brings food for only herself, the kids, and her husband…she doesn’t even ask us do want anything to eat or check on us to see if we okay which is making my heart hurts. She turned into someone i don’t know anymore. I don’t know what to do?????

Category: asked February 23, 2015

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There might be something going on inside her that she is not ok bringing up yet, but that does not give her the right. If she won't pay her half of things it may be time to sit down with your mom and see about laying down the law. (She needs to cover her half or not live there.) Make sure your sister knows you love her but don't let her take advantage. Everyone is fighting their own battles!
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Hi there,I definitely agree with Cait. It sounds like she is bothered by something and doesn't know how to deal with it properly, so she is spending money and coping in unhealthy ways. You didn't say how recently she had her children, but do you think it's possible she might be suffering from postpartum depression? Sometimes that can be a cause of sudden personality changes too. I hope you both can find a way to convey that you are hurt by her actions but still show that you love her. it's not fair that she is spending so much money and you and your mother are struggling to find food to eat.Wishing you all the best, Aerith