why is he doing this? what should I do?

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I rlly hve feelings for this guy at sch but smehw it’s just complicated.so here’s how it all started.everytime he passes me by he would say hi to me but I just ignored him stil he didn’t give up on me.one day i finally said hi.we texted almost everyday and went out once.yup.once.after tht,we just cntact through our phones.even bfore any of these happened,I knw it all the time tht he has a gf frm another sch.at first,I didnt mind tht much cuz I thought we were just gonna be nrmal friends.lter it was just out of cntrol he started being all sweet to me but tht was it.it had nothing to do with sex which made me thought hes probably diff frm other guys.next, hes saying he loves me & doesn’t want me to be with any other guy & it came to a point where I ask him does he really love me & did he and his gf broke up.he said yes they broke up a long time ago n was sorry he didn’t mean to play my feelings.which just doesn’t make sense?aftr tht, a friend of mine whom I really trust told me tht hes lying tht their rlship is still on.things got awkward between us.we didn’t talk for some time.then,it happened all over again.im still stuck between leave/block him from my life or just stay?. .why is he doing this :(

Category: asked January 31, 2014

4 Answers

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He just wants his cake and eat it. Dont let him. Cut him. That’s no way to treat someone nor is it respectful.
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Guys are stupid, I would know because i am one. This all happened to me once but it was a girl that did it to me. So i just cut her out of my life after I found out what she was doing. No i dont have to worry about my feelings being hurt anymore :)
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And I can tell you girls can be just as vicious, I know because I was the female version of him. Luckily I figured it out and stopped hurting people. Cut him out of your life, no one deserves it.
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Young lady, that boy is using you. You're going to be much better off once you get rid of him.