Why he came inside me

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I met up with a guy I met online. He paid for hotel and everything. We had sex 5 times and he came inside me every time. He has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. So I was wondering what would make him feel so comfortable ejaculating inside of me so many times without asking about contraception or anything??

Category: Tags: asked July 21, 2014

10 Answers

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Miss Melly, the simple answer is that he did it because you let him.

After the first time, he felt no reason not to do it again. You didn't tell him not to or even express discomfort with it, so he felt like it must have been okay.
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wow. some people are just not responsible and don't care about the consequences of unprotected sex. some men feel empowered or good about cumming inside, but he should've asked before doing that.however, I think you are also responsible for your sexual health, so you should have had contraception/condoms if you wanted to protect yourself. please think about this next time.
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If he had done it once then I'd be calling him an asshole, but 5 times? Why did you keep letting him do it?
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Some guys just straight up don't care about consequences. You always have to use the "what if" factor. "What If I get Pregnant" or "What if he carries an STD of some sort" anyway, long story short, you need to be more careful and protect your future.
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Please try to remember that your actions affect your partner. You are putting them at risk without them knowing. Thats unfair.
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If this is a pattern for both of you, I weep for both of your partners.
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You should've stopped it after the first time,unprotected sex is not at all advisable..I think you're grownup enough to know that if you want to have sex,you must use contraception..
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The fact is because I like it, it's one of my ultimate turn ons. I don't know if it's the risk factor or what but I love it when it happens. I just thought due to the circumstances it's something he would worry about... But apparently not. I didn't bring it up because I thought if I actually asked for it then I would sound a bit crazy. It was all very passionate and full on, but I still find it pretty odd that he would just do that. I know it's dumb and I should definitely know better but it's just what I enjoy. Your answers are appreciated
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He is an asshole, as simple as that
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I fully understand and appreciate that I should feel terrible about my actions, but I just don't. I clearly have some kind of personal issues, but that's for a health profession to decide. I still remain relatively perplexed as to why a very successful individual which he is with a long term partner would not worry about something like this. He wasn't drunk and he had spent the entire evening being a perfect gentleman. He potentially has so much to lose if I turn out to be the kind of woman that would exploit a pregnancy (I'm not) but he doesn't know that. I feel as though I daren't bring it up with him now incase he panics and I don't want him to feel bad as I thoroughly enjoyed myself... Maybe he's just a sociopath?