ive never been the same as everyone else, my mental outlook on life my personality, how i dress, everything. i used to go to another school with a boy that was kind of like me. and when i went home on the bus there was this girl that liked the same things i like, she was the closet thing ive ever had to a best friend. But then i moved. My family and the boys family have always been friends, so sometimes they come over to our house to watch football. the boy is nothing like he used to be, he dosent have the same personality as before. Now i don’t know what to do, all the people at my new school i cant relate to and my old friend is not the same.
please tell me if you had a similar experience or just now what to do.
Unfortunately, people change. I think it's time to move on and I understand that it's painful but you can do something about it. Have you tried getting in activities at school? Make sure you keep busy with thing that you love and eventually someone will want to be friends with you. Have you tried speaking to other people in class? You can start with asking for help from another person and just slip in the one or two questions about who they are and what they like to do.
I've been through the same event. At first, I always really upset and depressed, but when time passes by, I get used to it and friends just normally come. Dont worry about it. Everything happens for a reason :)
People change after a period of time. I know it hurts knowing that the person you met before aren't how they used to be, but maybe you could try and make new friends? Socialize a bit more and enjoy your life, you have a lot ahead of you. (:
Remember that you can't decide if you have something in common or not with a person before you have actually gotten to know them. That's very important! It may seem like you don't share anything with these people, but trust me, there is very little you need to have in common to get along - as long as you're open-minded, try to keep a friendly attitude you will find it easy to get a long with others. That's really the key to finding friends and getting to know people, to be open to them, not to be like them.Good luck, my friend, you'll find people out there! c: