I did try to vent about this but no one seemed to know what to say or advise and others didn’t want to even help, so i thought i’d ask on here instead. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost two years now… I love him to bits and we get along really well… we never argue in fact. But everything he does at the moment pisses me off… he could do something or ask me something or even just call and for some reason I will get really angry. I will admit there are times that he can be really clingy, he likes to have everyones attention always on him which I think is because his parents baby him so much and I tend to end up feeling like “mom” in a way. but im almost feeling fed up with the relationship. theres not a lot of passion there anymore and he seems to be more in love than I am. Hes supportive but in the same time hes not… earlier today I told him that my grandad (who has terminal lung cancer) had come down with a chest infection… and all he could say was “aww he’ll get better soon” and it just really wound me up. sometimes my friend says that her and her boyfriend argue and I think shes lucky in a way because at least they’re communicating in some way or another, when I try and communicate with mt boyfriend he just becomes so absent… he says sorry and then acts like thats going to change everything and help make it better. Sometimes I think he just says it to stop me from trying to talk about stuff.
I dont want to break up with him because we are good together and I do love him. I know I need to talk to him about it, but because I don’t understand why im feeling like this myself, its making it harder to know what to say… just wanted to know if anyone else has felt this way before? Or had the same issues?
(Sorry if the spelling is bad, typed it out on my phone)