My fiance and I have known each other since high school, been together for 3 years now, and have been through poverty, a year apart when I moved out of state, and a miscarriage 2 years ago. We are both 28, neither of us have been to college, and we both have pretty much the same views on life, and get along pretty well. So my question is, despite us both being very attracted to each other, and him always saying how beautiful I am, 85% of the time he rejects me when I try to initiate sex. He has no question of his sexuality and is very attracted to me (and tells me all the time which is very confusing to me). We are together most of the time and I always know where he is so I know he isn’t cheating on me (he isn’t really the type and since I always offer sex and we get along so well really has no reason to). I just don’t get it, we don’t have kids, we aren’t always busy, and despite not eating healthy we don’t really have any health problems. Almost every night we flirt and joke around and laugh and then when I go to kiss him and make a move, he always comes up with something. It could be anything, he is tired, hungry, he is doing something, he has to work tomorrow (even if it is like 3pm in the afternoon and he doesn’t have to be at work until like 11 the next day or something like that). It is just so confusing because we don’t really apply to most of the reasons for something like this and I am thinking maybe it is because he is losing interest in me even though he tells me all the time how beautiful and sexy he thinks I am..like I will be laying there on the bed and he will look over and be like “you are so hot”, but then he continues to sit there and not come over and make a move..I feel like I am losing my mind. yes I am bipolar and can have hypersexuality at times, but I have gotten that under control for the most part..even with my issues, once a week doesn’t seem normal for two people in love at age 28 with no kids..I mean come on we should be doing it like every other day if not every day..is it me? I especially would love a guys prospective on this but anyone who thinks they could help is welcome to try..