I am not a teen but am a parent. I have spoken with teens in the chat who’s parents don’t seem to take their relationships with others seriously. The hardest breakups of my life were when I was a teen. When you are a teen the feelings you have are so raw and uninterrupted by house payments, laundry, careers, crying babies and all of the other adult things that get in the way. When you are a teen all you have to do is your school work and think about/be with the other person. It’s just so simple of a love but so very intense in my opinion. It hurts me to think that so many parents cannot remember what that felt like when it comes to their own children. I respect both of my teen son’s relationships with girls. NO they probably won’t marry any of these girls but that doesn’t mean their feelings for them are not very intense and very real. They may even be in love. Parents seem to think of teen break ups as something that’s no big deal. After all they are just kids right? I have a 13 yr old son who has been dating a girl for 3 months right now. Do I think they are to young to be so infused in one another? Yes. I think it’s a little soon for the kind of feelings they seem to have but I will not forbid it. They seem to be like peanut butter and jelly. I know they probably won’t stay together forever but I respect how they feel about each other. If I forbid my son to date a girl at this age he will just do it anyway. I am so worried about how upset he will be when they break up because I can see they have real feelings for each other. Just because they are still learning the ways of life does not mean their feelings are not very real. I will never forget how upset my oldest son was in 9th grade when the girl he had been dating for months broke up with him right before homecoming. I didn’t really care for her as a girl friend for my son but his feelings for her were very real and I respected that. They still went to homecoming after that but it was a very hard time for my son. I tried to understand what he was going threw and help him get threw it as best a I could. I guess I am just wanting to raise awareness that teen love is very real.