I just get a little frustrated that people disconnect so quickly. There have been a number of times when I have signed in as a listener and, whilst waiting for a venter to connect, have opened another tab. I’m sure I’m not the only one who doesn’t simply have time to throw around since we all live busy lives – so I see nothing out of the ordinary in multi tasking whilst waiting for a venter to come along.
And yet when I come back no more than 2 minutes after I clicked on ‘listener’ the person has already been, said Hi, asked if I was there, and disconnected – plus, they didn’t connect straight away.
So I guess to the venters out there, I ask you this: the listeners are taking time out of their day to help you. Don’t expect them to reply within seconds. If you want their help, why disconnect before giving them a chance to reply?