There’s this guy at school who I kept having a crush on, on-and-off. He was overall a friendly funny guy, but was super confident and outgoing, while I am the opposite- super shy and self conscious. This guy was always giving me attention and talking to me, but I never knew how to respond because I always felt nervous and assumed he was joking around with me. For a while, I felt almost obsessed with him and thought about him all the time, wondering if he did the same with me. But as I learned more about him, i realized that he had tons of other friends and probably didnt pay any attention to me. I have since learned that he wasnt as great of a guy as I thought he was, but for some reason I still feel drawn to him and really nervous around him. I dont know if I’m nervous just because it’s a social situation or because I may have feelings for him. I just wish I didn’t like him anymore! What makes it even harder is that my friends are always teasing me telling me how he “obviously” likes me even though I know he doesn’t. How can I get over this guy who doesnt even care about me and I dont even want to like. I think I was just drawn to him because he was the only guy who payed any mind to me at all lol. Help!