Why do I feel so ugly?

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So, I’ve been doing well for awhile. But recently, I’ve begun to hate the way I look. I mean, yeah I have decent face, and I don’t feel fat too often, but I just feel ugly. I feel like I’m not pretty enough for anyone to notice me. I know this will sound pathetic, but I tried anorexia, and I wasn’t dedicated enough. What can I say, I love food. But that made me feel worse; it was like a slap in the face. I’m not only ugly, I’m un-dedicated. I don’t understand why I feel this way! People tell me I’m pretty, but I don’t believe it. I feel like they just want me to feel better about myself. I want to be prettier, I want to be skinnier, and I want people to notice me for once. I’m not fat I guess. I mean, I’m 5″6 and I’m 110 lbs. Is that fat? I’m pathetic, too.Like that, I asked if I was fat. I always seek approval from others, when I know their approval doesn’t matter. I just hate myself. What is wrong with me?

Category: asked July 9, 2014

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I'm not the best at thank-yous, but...Thanks, a lot.
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One person can't be ugly. Ugly is mental characteristic. I find beauty in every girl - the way she looks, thinks, wears her hair... I think girls these days are bombed with nonsense from the media. The girls in the magazins or those on the TV - they have been photoshoped to look more apealing to buyers. It's like they are on sale. It's marketing. Don't let the person you are ( and I'm sure is beautiful) to be sold. Stay strong beautiful, because I'm sure you are. If you need someone to talk, am here.
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Okay first of all to address the weight thing, at your height and weight your bmi would be around 17.9-18.0 actually making you underweight. I know that off hand because I'm about the same height and weight (but I'm a 20 year old dude so its a little different). I am going so say the same thing people have been telling you. You are pretty.But more important then that you are a real person and to guys that is infinitely more attractive. Don't compare yourself to what the news or magazines say is attractive, they make thing up for the specific purpose of making beauty unattainable. prime example: thigh gap most guys don't know what it is or notice it.(I know because i have a sister) wanting people to notice you is a good thing but they should notice you for the right reasons. You are smart and a good person, I've seen you answering other peoples questions with good answers, Not many 14 year old's can do that. Be proud of who you are and people will notice you. So I'll say it again you are pretty. I'm not a nice enough person to lie just to make a person feel better. If I didn't think it was true i would have avoided the subject entirely. And for god's sake don't try to lose more weight
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tell yourself how epic you are and ignore the social media bull.
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I'm not saying this to make you feel better or anything but, are you KIDDING ME?? Don't even think about it. You're gorgeous!!