Why do I always end up wasting my time with hopeless relationships?

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I am in yet another relationship where I thought everything was going just smoothly. Until my significant other decided to have a “Split-off,” for three days. When I got a hold of them I calmly asked why this was a choice they made, also stating negligence is a sign of a breakup. They sarcastically made the statement; “Breakup? Oh not yet.” Then stating in a jovial tone, “Just kidding I know how much you hate hate the word word; “Yet.”" Soon they stated; “I have something I need to tell you in person, I need to go to work, I’m exhausted, and do not have time for this.”

To my surprise this was just like my Ex. But thank God I’m wiser then I was before. I seem to end up wasting my time with people who do not appreciate me for me, and drag things out thus hurting me. I asked myself countless of times “Hold on, am I responsible for this treatment?”

Does anyone have any similar experiences? I feel like I’m regressing psychologically to the meek, dependent person I use to be. I feel stressed, and worried. I hate that I care.

Category: Tags: asked December 21, 2014

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Honestly? He's a jerk boyfriend if he isn't serious about your relationship. People don't just go around being sarcastic about love. And the next time a dude tells you to give him space without a rational and reasonable reason, then just break up with him (: Totally cliche of me to say, but You Only Live Once. Life is too short to be worrying and chasing down people that don't care about you. ^-^ Have a girls night! Spend time with your friends, and just be happy. (Oh, and one more thing: the next time you're romantically interested let the guy chase you, not the other way around. DONT text him first. keep your options open and know your priorities. Hoes before bros!