I am in yet another relationship where I thought everything was going just smoothly. Until my significant other decided to have a “Split-off,” for three days. When I got a hold of them I calmly asked why this was a choice they made, also stating negligence is a sign of a breakup. They sarcastically made the statement; “Breakup? Oh not yet.” Then stating in a jovial tone, “Just kidding I know how much you hate hate the word word; “Yet.”" Soon they stated; “I have something I need to tell you in person, I need to go to work, I’m exhausted, and do not have time for this.”
To my surprise this was just like my Ex. But thank God I’m wiser then I was before. I seem to end up wasting my time with people who do not appreciate me for me, and drag things out thus hurting me. I asked myself countless of times “Hold on, am I responsible for this treatment?”
Does anyone have any similar experiences? I feel like I’m regressing psychologically to the meek, dependent person I use to be. I feel stressed, and worried. I hate that I care.