Why do girls always go for older guys?

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I’m 19 and male. All the girls I loved my age have rejected me because they prefer older men and they didn’t really give a reason. So I need to know from women only, why do most girls have this preference? Is it a dominance thing?

Category: Tags: asked March 9, 2014

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Usually the most common reason is the sense of security, matureness and provision/protection. An older male is usually seen as more financially stable which is more appealing to younger females, whereas a younger male may be studying or may not own their own property etc. Also there's faithfulness as well, many young women feel that older men tend to be more loyal and faithful in a relationship whereas a younger gentlemen is more likely to cheat or to end the relationship to be with another female and maturity ties into that as well. People believe younger males are more likely to go out clubbing, drinking and getting upto mischief. Then there's intelligence as well, older males tend to be seen as wiser and more intelligent compared to younger males. Older males are often viewed by females as more experienced in relationships and know what a relationship truly means. Remember, these are just general theories and while they have some truth in them, they're not 100% accurate and reliable. Every female will have a different a preference, some will like younger men and some will like older. It all depends on the individual. But yes, the general pattern is that young females tend to lean more towards older men for the reasons I talked about above.
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Girl prefer guys much older because they have experienced guys their age and aren't too fond of the immaturity they possess. I can say from my own personal experience that most guys my age are pretty much jerks and immature but I'm not saying every guy is the same. We just have this expectation or hope that older guys are much more experienced in a sense that they are more mature and don't fuck around and play games. None of that childish shit lol
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The this is, most girls normally think like a year or two ahead of their actual age so she would love to have a guy older whom she believes is maturer in the mind.
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When a girl is very young, she prefers someone her age with whom she can have fun.
When a girl becomes a young woman, she wants someone older for security.
When a woman matures, she wants a younger man so she can still feel desirable and energetic.

Though I phrased the above statement as a given, it is not always the case. You just have the tendency to gravitate toward the kind of women your age who are looking for more security. Foster that image of security and reliability around yourself and you'll find yourself more appealing to those women and their like.

Good luck, and don't make the mistake of generalizing all women into one category. Not all women want older men.
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I prefer guys my age or older too. But there is nothing wrong with someone younger. I think they just like guys on the 20's.
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girls mature faster than guys. Girls go for older guys so they can have the same level of maturity. For your question if it is a dominance thing, it may be. Girls like to see the sense of responsibility. If a guy is dominant, it may be perceived as "he knows what he's doing".
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as a fellow guy, i will just say that i dont get it either. Might be a maturity thing or a preconcieved notion.
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Ok, I get it now. I'll admit I'm not the most financially stable guy but I don't like immaturity and I don't do stuff like clubbing either.
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I believe, because they find the guys of their age rather goofy and immature. : )
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im 19 and my boyfriend is 43. the reason I prefer to date him then guys my age is because 1 he treats me right 2 guys my age I have dated all done me wrong and bogus by cheating on me and lying. my boyfriend has never lied to me. hes mature but still goofy at the same time. he knows what he wants and he accepts me. and not to mention it could be a sexual thing because older men are more experienced. im just saying I have never met a younger guy who treats me the way my current boyfriend does.
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@babyblue94 It's kinda funny how I'm getting told not to generalize all women yet this girl is generalizing all younger guys.