why am i so depressed?

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I have a great boyfriend and all I could ever ask for but I’m so unhappy. We have been living together for 7 months and he gives me anything I need but I feel like something is missing. I’m always sad, j don’t understand.

Category: asked June 12, 2013

2 Answers

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Sometimes people can get depressed without a known reason, I suggest you talk this with a doctor or counselor, who might help you deal with it, and if needed, suggest you take some anti-depressant, since depression can be caused by a number of reasons, even the fact that you could be lacking some hormone and that makes you depressed
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Do you know what happiness is? Happiness is not a solid state (like alive or dead). Happiness is made out of little moments that give us joy and pleasure. Like your favorite food, watching a good movie, a kiss... If you were ever sad, then you should check with a doctor, to see that's everything is alright with your hormones (depression is as biological, as it is psycological). It's physically impossible to feel joy while in depression. If you're not depressive, and just want more, maybe you're bored. DO NOT let this amazing relationship you have suffer for falling in routine. Do stuff you never did, WITH HIM. Learn a martial art, go to dance class together, learn a new language, watch animes, play videogames, learn a new sport. If you have hobbies like this, with him, then the only explanation is the lack of goals. What gives you drive to live? Make plans, audacious plans (and separate it in short, medium and long time): open a bussiness, traveling the world, having kids, a fancy wedding party. While you are alive, you have the duty (and the pleasure) to live. Enjoy!