who will stop the rain?

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My girlfriend just moved out. She took our 4month old daughter. I was blindsided by this. We didn’t have a great relationship but it was not horrible. I need personal space and she needs a lot of self assurance. She said her feelings have changed. I can be a jerk to seek reactions and she hoards her feelings and opinions. If I had any doubts on our relationship I would not have had a child with her I believe that to be true for her as well. we are both normally very civil people. we came to custody agreement with out lawyers or court.

I don’t want to be alone but I don’t want to move on
ultimately I want my family back.

do I wait? Do I start moving on?

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Category: Tags: asked August 5, 2014

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that. is. tough. one thing for sure, is to move on. i mean, you should still be in both of their lives, but she wants some thing different, and you have to respect that. in some rare cases-people do get back together, i dunno whatll happen, but i would say, treat your family with love and kindness. and i just want to make something clear, the fact she doesnt want you, doesnt mean your worthless, not good enough, or anything to that effect. sometimes, people realize (sometimes a little too late) with what they want. and im sorry you had to be the one stuck in the middle of all this. i think itd be good for you to let her go about her life, dont try to get her back, just see what happens with you two, but dont get your hopes up, thats probably the worst possible thing you could do. i hope you get through this :)