I'm sort of in the middle with this question. Yes, both my girl friend and my significant other would both be equally important to me but it all comes down to really shows me true loyalty. I can't say that my man's more important if my friends treat me better than he does. If that makes sense. Let's look at this two ways: I say your friends IF they have held it down since day 1 and no guy will ever get between y'all. Friendships are important & I say your significant other IF not only if they're the one for you but they also gives you the love and loyalty that you need and deserve.