Where should I draw the line when it comes to a best friend?

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I don’t know where to draw the line..
I was really alone for a long time, and the only person I talked to was her. She was pushing away too, but at that poibt I took what I could get. After two months of no one contacting me or wanting to be with me, after at least a month with me going to bed in tears every night- I told her about it.
I told her about how alone I was, how I think I’m on the verge of getting a clynical depression, and how much I needed her.

But nothing changed– although she acted like she cared, she didn’t. About a month later I decieded to drop my ego and just call her over. And it was fun, until I saw a picture of her and all my best friends on the beach.. So that was my actual breaking point.

I got mad, didn’t tell her why (I know. Very childlike) , and now I’m more alone than ever.

Is it worth it? Should I really lose her? Where should I draw the line?

Category: asked May 30, 2014

3 Answers

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I feel like this person is not your true friend, and may only be spending time with you out of sympathy. You should find a true friend, not someone who is only with you out of pity. There was probably a time where you two were legitimate best friends and she cared about you a lot. Now, it's more out of sympathy. Find true friends that actually care about you. Whether they are online friends, or real life friends. Or simply find a friend on blahtherapy. Anything is better than being completely alone. If you are feeling lonely, there are always people on the internet that are feeling lonely, or would enjoy talking with you. Don't worry. You are never completely alone.
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While I know it hurt you, I don't believe this was done in malice. Many people simply don't understand how hard it is to lie with these sorts of problems - especially isolation. I think it is important to conserve this relationship with her, as you feel comfortable talking to her. further distancing yourself form your final ally may make you feel further isolated and can make you feel worse. stick with it, continue to explain how you feel to her, and be honest - or they can't stop how they're behaving :)
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You know what it may be hard but if she is going to be a fake friend you might be better off with no friends. At one point in my life I had no friends at all and I felt so alone. But now I have made real friends and I realize that I was better off friendless than having fake friends. I assure you that one day you will find real friends and this will just be the past. And your not completely alone its just hard to realize that sometimes but there is someone or something that's there for you. Don't think that way if you feel alone change that, for me it was music. A lot of people make friends online try making a tumblr and talk to people there. You can talk to me too.