What’s wrong with me?


It’s been 2 months and I’m still stressed out about being pregnant, though I know I should be 100% sure that I’m not; I didn’t have sex, I’ve had my period regularly since, and I took a pregnancy test which ended up negative.
I thought I was because I gave my boyfriend a handjob and he ejaculated on me, I was naked, and he thought there could’ve been a way of the sperm coming in contact with my vagina.
So, I’ve genuinely had no signs of pregnancy, I took the test on Monday hoping that will stop me from worrying, but it hasn’t and I don’t know what’s happening to me.
I keep thinking my stomach is growing, getting fatter in a way. I know it’s stupid. Though, I’ve been self conscious about my weight for a long time.
I honestly don’t know whether I’m so wary of my weight and stomach appearance because of the pregnancy situation, or because I paranoid about getting fat.
I have gained weight, I went from being around 7.8stone to now being about 8.2.
Please help, give some advice, I seriously don’t know what to think…

Category: Tags: asked March 11, 2015

2 Answers

You're not pregnant. You had your periods and that pregnancy test was negative. You only gained a little bit of weight. Your weight can fluctuate a little. Just because you gained a little bit doesn't mean you'll continue to gain weight. It's not always going to be exactly the same number. You shouldn't worry about this. You're not pregnant. You have that idea stuck in your head and you're over thinking this a lot. There's nothing that indicates that you would be pregnant because you're clearly not. The little bit you gained will go down again. It could be just from fluids that you had or something like that. Don't worry about it. There's nothing wrong with you.
You are not pregnant. however, your mind can play nasty tricks on you. it can press all the buttons in your brain that say you're pregnant, and you're body obays. it goes into overdrive, and all sorts of symptoms and side effects of being pregnant show up. it sometimes even happens to guys.a lot of people think that that is only a thing that tv producers put in their shows for plot twists and interesting storys, but it's real. i had a friend who had the same problem.just do your best not to worry.