What’s wrong with dreaming BIG ?

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I have big dreams related to my big pride to achieve , not fame , money , women , and other shallow shit , but only to achieve self satisfaction … And the problem i’m having is people around me telling me that i’m dreaming bugger than myself , i’m getting no support from any one , even life is shooting me to hold me back from realising those dream i have . The way i look to things is “Dream BIG to get BIG” or “Dream little and stay little” … My family is telling me to take chance with things they want me to do but i don’t want for myself , suck as studying engineering , i know it’s good and stuff but that’s not what i see myself in the futur , i look at facts and then i take my decisions , i don’t want to be stuck with life based on routine and agendas … so here i am having my big dreams and stuck with a world who doesn’t get my way of living and thinking …

asked December 18, 2013

5 Answers

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In a situation like that, sometimes you have to find your own motivation. It's extremely difficult but this is your life we're talking about here. If you're not happy with it, something needs to change. If you keep your goals at the forefront of your mind and focus only on working hard, then they can't drag you down, and you can be successful.
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What exactly are your dreams? How are they putting you down or not supporting you? What exactly is going on?
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I want to have the ultimate body and be a fitness model , travel the world for competitions and shows , have friends who really like what i do and support me all the way ... be able to live free and do what i want simply ... may be one day meet one of my idols in the world of fitness and bodybuilding . i know i'm meant to do this cause i have the genetics for it , i'm tall and big , i gain muscle easy and have the strenght to lift weights.. My family and friends arent supporting me through that , i need motivation but i can't find it ... they keep telling me to stop all that and focus on college while college cause me nothing but stress .
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nothing wrong with it. your life is in your own hands to do what you want with it.
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There's nothing wrong with dreaming big. You just gotta work for it. You gotta make it happen. You have to find motivation within yourself and fight for those dreams. Prove all of the people around you wrong. Set an example for all of the other people out there who are wondering if their dreams are too big.