For this whole year, I’ve been really slacking off on everything. Even though I know that I have to study for a test, when I actually force myself to sit down and get things done, I find that I just can’t do it. I’ve tried eliminating distractions like hiding my phone and reminding myself that I HAVE to do it but nothing seems to work. During class, I just kind of drift off. When I try to concentrate, I grow increasingly scared, I don’t know why. The thing about my school is that it’s incredibly competitive. My school mates are pretty ruthless and spend hours a day studying. There are tests every week and my grades are just slipping. Last year, I did really well for my studies with even less effort so it makes me very angry when I think about why I am like this now. Nowadays, I don’t even feel much when I see a fail grade. I dread waking up every morning even though I know there are things to look forward to, but I find that I’m just caring less and less.
One more thing, I feel sort of disconnected from who I am in the day and at night. I can talk to my friends perfectly fine in the day. People think I’m quite an optimistic and cheery person, not at all the kind to become brooding. I can safely say that nobody suspects anything is wrong with me. I kind of just forget about everything in the day, whether I’m alone or with friends. When I don’t pay attention in class or can’t bring myself to do simple tasks like I mentioned earlier and my friends wonder why, I just come up with an excuse that I, myself, am able to believe too. It’s only when it’s late then everything becomes daunting to me. I feel like I’m slowly sinking and losing value. My self-esteem was(is?) great, I used to be one of those kids who believed that I could accomplish everything and was (am?) always encouraging everyone to do their best. But now, I feel sort of like everything I’m saying is a lie.
The scary thing is that I’m beginning not to care too. I feel like I can just give up on myself and everything will stop being so suffocating. I really don’t want to make my parents worry at all. They’re kind of in a fragile state right now so the last thing I will ever do is add to their burdens, so I guess it rules out the possibility of going to a doctor. Do you have any advice for me?