I have close friends and I love them all, but lately I just feel so alone. I feel like I can’t talk to anyone because they all have their own things going on. Most have a boyfriend or someone else to talk to. I don’t enjoy talking about how I feel, but I’d like to just have a nice conversation about stuff, y’know? What do you guys do when you feel like this? I feel empty or something, I don’t know exactly how to feel.
Whenever I feel like that, I usually end up going on here, read or end up writing a story, (as nerdy as that may sound.) Reading and writing allows you to go into another world, and allows you to escape the "real world" for a bit. Also, if you ever want to have a conversation about anything, you can talk to me. :)
I would do something that I enjoy. Something that calms me is listening to music while sketching, perhaps. Do you have people that you enjoy watching on YouTube? Maybe do that as well. Or, you could write down your feelings. Remember: you're not alone feeling like this. Even if they seem like they have all their things going on, you could try talking to them. I bet they'd be welcome to listen. Good luck! <3
I like listening to music (not that I don't listen to music when I'm not lonely, though). It is one of the best companions. Find a song that you really relate to you. I could suggest some options for you, but you probably don't like the music I like (but if you do happen to like Jpop or Kpop, you can message me for song suggestions if you like). Somethings that helps even more is if you can play songs on an instrument or even write music. You may not be into this stuff, but writing poems can also help you let out your feelings in a good way. Plus, you can share them! Best wishes.
Thats exactly when I log on here or just surf the net - or just join a chatroom and tell my feelings to annonymously to a stranger... ain't really awesome as a close friend but yeh least I get it off my chest. Guess it might be bit selfish but that's kinda all options when theres noone really u feel like want to hear what you got to tell bout urself anyway...
Lemme know if you find any other activity I'm up for tryin that out aswell...
Think about how horrible my life is and laugh about it. Then when I get bored of that I play video games, read novels, program, photoshop etc.It's not that it's bad to think about your problems, but negative emotions seem to suck people into never ending mental loops that end up being more damaging than constructive.
I can remember a time in my life when I felt completely alone. I had no friends at the time, and things in my life were just kind of hard. Finally, I remember I got on my knees after a really hard day, and prayed to God to send me a friend. SOMEONE who would be there for me, because I had no one. It took a while, but I soon saw that Heavenly Father/God answered my prayers. He sent me a wonderful friend, with whom became my best friend. I know that God answers prayers, and that He cares about each of us. I bet if you pray to Him to send you someone, He will. He has done it for me, and He has answered many other prayers of mine and of others.Here is a short little video that reminded me of what you posted:
http://www.mormonchannel.org/watch/series/mormon-messages/youre-never-alone-2Even when it feels like we are alone, after the fact, I realize that there was always SOMEONE cheering me on - even if I didn't see it at the time.
Best of luck, friend. God bless you~