What to do?


4 months ago the love of my life left me, when he told me he wasn’t ever going to leave me, we planned to be together forever, I’m still hurting and depressed over it, we were together for at least 2 years. I want him back, I feel like I need him, he was what made me truly happy. Now my friends are slowly leaving me, I feel so alone now. Everyone is turning their back on me, even my family.. Everything is falling apart, I’ve done nothing wrong, nothing to deserve this. I’m trying my hardest to stay strong, I fake my happiness but it’s not working, everyone notices that I fake my happiness. I don’t know what else to do.

Category: Tags: asked April 28, 2013

2 Answers

I would imagine that your friends and family are distancing themselves from you because you are depressed. Now I know it likely sounds like I am blaming you, but that is really not the case I am trying to make. It took me almost half a year to pull my head out my ass when my significant other left me. It's been 9 months and I am still pretty messed up.

I am getting off topic here...what I am trying to say is give it time. Lets those wounds mend and build a stronger you. Once that happens, you will be much nicer to be around. It is possible that they all just want to give you some space. Who knows.
I am going through the same thing.It really is hard but I imagine it will make us stronger in the end.My boyfriend threw me out after telling me he is in love with his friend and I found out my mom has a tumor. Through all this I thought I would at least have my "friends" but no one really seems to care.I know it's hard to find someone who is genuinely concerned or cares so if you ever need to talk you can message me anytime.