What to do for Valentine’s Day?

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Here’s the situation in a nutshell:
A month ago, I moved to a new town to continue working on my college education. I was introduced to this AMAZING girl; flat out, she’s everything I’d want in a woman. After about 2 weeks or so of knowing her, I opened up to her about how I felt. Everything seemed fine and dandy, the following week, she tells me that she feels awkward with our huggnig, and our sometimes random meetings. She says she sees me as a friend (guys, you know this zone…). Again, I understand, I need to slow myself down. We share a class together, we usually walk together from point a to point b, and part ways. Though, she seems kind of distant here lately. It’s actually altering my thinking and mindset quite a bit.

I went to the store and picked up a small puppy, and a card for her for Valentine’s Day. In no way does any of it express: true love, or romance, and is not suggestive that I am trying to ask her into a relationship. My thing is, I do not want to make her feel more awkward, and possibly run the risk of her completely disassociating with me.

So! Amazing people of BlahTherapy; my question for you is *drum roll*: Should I give her these gifts on Valentine’s Day why or why not? All opinions will be taken into consideration. Thank you all in advance! :)

Category: Tags: asked February 11, 2014

3 Answers

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See, I don't think she is ready to be in a relationship, we are still kind of in the stages of getting to know each other. Again, I don't want to rush anything, and since I have had to back off some, I believe it is going to take a little more time. But, I do care about her, and I feel that showing her that I care is a step in the right direction.
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Hmm, I personally think that you should not give it to her. This girl has definitely made it clear that she's not looking for anything more than friendship from you right now and you have already made your feelings about her known. If I were you I would just wish her a simple "Happy Valentines day" and maybe offer her a piece of candy but don't just offer it to her. Offer it to other friends if they're around. I think by going with the romantic gesture of a card and stuffed animal you may be putting too much pressure on her and you may end up losing her. Let her think for a bit that maybe there's someone else you're thinking about on valentines day and just go for simple. Girls don't like to be chased too hard.
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This is becoming increasingly difficult. :/ Lol. Like, I know I'm not going to be in a relationship with her right now; we've both established that. I want to take the time to get to know her. But, I also want to show her that I do in fact care about her.