Well, to be quiet honest. I personally do not think this issue has anything wrong to do with "You" on an individual level. However, there seems to be a clear indication to point on the other side of the scale, being his actions contributing to this situation at hand.
I think simply being a "Virgin" shouldn't really reflect on your overall appearance and ignite such an action from his point of view. That being said, I do think there is an level of (Immaturity) from his side; either in reflecting a negative image or drawing feelings towards a falsely represented image.
Overall, I think the bottom line in this situation is to determine who you want to be around in your social circle. Consider whether having a dishonest individual that seems to be consistently harming your personal feelings happens to be a good choice to continue interacting with.
What's good in this situation however, is simply the "interaction" that came along the experience. You're learning to open up to the world around you and asking questions to seek advice. This is a positive step towards a brighter well informed future. You're learning important characteristics about this individual, and at this current time it's simply your choice whether to continue involving this individual in your future encounters and daily life.
"Life isn't about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself"
