What should I really do?

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I m 18 guy, and I am really very nervous about writing all this publicly but I don’t know what else choices I have, first of all please don’t be judgemental and then read this all and think as by imagining yourself at my place, and then answer.
So thing is that I m a teenager and people think it’s like normal for teenager to feel all this but no one really understands. I never had any girlfriend, not a single sexual incounter or anything. Yes I am a Virgin, call me a loser if you want and I know this might be like nonsense stuff for some but yes I feel lonely and I do get all these hormonal feelings or simply I do get horny, I tried a lot of things like omegle and all but I never get anything, I thought cam chat might help but I never get a single girl. some say watch porn but Idk why porn doesn’t kinda helps, I don’t enjoy it that much. People say wait for the right one, God I don’t know how to reply to that sentence cause it’s frustrating, people don’t understand how it feels to be like this and all they say to wrap up things is that wait. I am like always down, I act all funny and cool around friends like there is no problem but it hurts, I don’t even know why I am writing all this, I m never having any sexual stuffs, I don’t understand what is wrong, as I too much horny or am I mad, am I pervert, Idk I just feel like I just can’t hold on and I don’t want to continue this life in this way anymore, don’t say wait for someone, cause you don’t know how long it has been, uhh I m just kinda wasting time here. So what should I do to feel better, or should I do end this miserable life. One more thing, I know people agree or not but there are a lot of racist people out there so let me tell you that I am from India, now let’s see does anyone even bothers to reply…

Tags: asked March 8, 2015

3 Answers

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Your feeling are kind of twisted up in a) it normal, b) what others may think and c) your culture. That's a lot to fight against. There are many of are still virgins at 18. Because you haven't had sex doesn't make you a loser. Listen, some are late bloomers. It will come, but if you convey you are desperate for sex it will have the opposite effect, you will turn off the opposite sex. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but you don't need to rush into anything to feel like a man. Sex can't do that for you. You love who and/or what you are the other will come in time when it is right.
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And once you do have sex you'll ask yourself one question "Was that it? Is that what all all the fuss was about? Now what?"What you really need is a partner to express your feelings and urges for intimacy and affection.And just like a desperate man in a casino who is loosing because he is "chasing" after his lost money" instead of focusing on playing the best way he can, don't try to chase after girls. Be the best man you can and they'll show their interest in their way. Just keep your eyes open and you'll see it.
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