Hi ,
I have been married for 9 months but we have been together for 3.5 years and living for 2.5 years. In the last 4 months we have been having lots of arguments and it never ends, one after another.
We had a big fight 3 months ago did not talk for 2 weeks and the biggest fight about a month ago and we started living in the same house in different rooms after that . He chose to do that. I am against separating rooms. So the latest and biggest fight was so offending and for me it was shocking to see his selfishness, hatred and revenge. We don’t have important topics but all small arguments get bigger when we start talking about it, as I am sensitive to bad words, loud voice shouting etc and he does not want to be interrupted and always wants to feel appreciated. He also gets angry quite quickly in a way where our neighbours come to the door. So we have different expectations from each other and it is never enough. A month is too long and tiring, every time we start talking about problems, it becomes another big problem. So we do not want to talk anymore. I was feeling so angry at the beginning, after that sadness, than I was normal but now again I am back to sadness thinking about these. So If I do not love him, I would not have cared about these things and gone already but I am still in the same house. I do not know what to do next, I do not know how to behave so I become unstable in my behaviours and feelings. If there is any married person reading this, I would appreciate your help.
Thanks,