What new things should I try in bed with my husband? I am 22 years old :)

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It just seems like we do the same stuff. Of course I’m sexy, so is he. We make eachother cum every single time. :) I just want something new to try in the bedroom. We watch porn all the time, sometimes ‘porn’ will make me insecure because those women have perfect tata’s & perfect booty and perfect ‘kitty’. I really want to overcome that feeling of not being pretty enough…

Category: Tags: asked February 11, 2014

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If you haven't read the fifty shades trilogy, you should check it out. Even if you're not into all the kinky stuff, it may give you some ideas to spice things up. You shouldn't feel insecure in the bedroom. Obviously your husband likes the way you look and you should embrace your body.
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Try asking him his fantasies and bringing them to life. The fifty shades books may help though. And stop letting porn stars make you feel insecure, most of them are fake...that's not perfection.
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It is good that you and your husband have such a prolific sex life. Enjoy it!

That being said, look at porn for the reality of what it is; it is a strictly-regulated business. Those actors and actresses have tens of thousands of dollars of work put into them to make them as perfectly-appealing as their desired demographic. They are cut, fluffed, dressed and made up to look perfect on-camera. THEY do not even look just like that every day.

Those men and women have SO MUCH sex that many of them become burned out on the act, because it is so strenuous. They are not super-human fuck-machines, they are worked to the bone. (Pun totally intended)

You satisfy your husband, that is the only thing that is important. As for your self-image, even those actors and actresses do not completely enjoy being made up. It takes HOURS of preparation for a shoot. They don't just find a couch, set up a camera, cast two or more people and just roll footage while the super-human bang-bots do their thing.

So relax, you're doing everything just fine. (:

As for bedroom tips and tricks...try googling "bedroom tips and tricks" and go nuts with the results. No matter what you do, never EVER let pressure to perform into your sex practices. Talk openly about your sex life and about what you like, and he will happily tell you what he finds stimulating, and as husband and wife, it is your job to learn everything that turns each other on. ;)

Have fun!
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yes communication is the key I agree with most of what has already been said. Being able to talk about what you want sexually will make communication throughout the relationship better. Ask him what he wants and he will tell you.Don't worry about your image he married you because he loves you.
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Your problem is you're doing it the bedroom ;) But seriously, its about how you feel and how he feels-- not standing up to a false standard of beauty. Concentrate on this things that turn you both on (that's much than appearances), and don't be afraid to try new things and break up the routine.
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Wow you guys had some great answers. Its just hard to find new things to do when you feel like you've tried everything. I have dildo's, lingerie, we fuck in the kitchen on the toilet whatever you name it. I just want to explore what else is out there and I would love to try a 3 some!!!! <3 <3
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Let's start with the basics. Women in poor are fake. With that being said you should know that most women in the porn industry tend to fake a lot of the enjoyment they get. And they enhance their bodies. So idk there is so much hype but that's to each their own. But, maybe shop at an adult store or buy an outfit that may turn him on. It's not all about him but it kind of gets it started.